{"id":1276,"date":"2022-03-14T00:31:57","date_gmt":"2022-03-14T00:31:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/linkieforkids.com\/carecremationservice\/finding-the-right-words-guidelines-on-how-to-talk-to-grieving-children-about-death\/"},"modified":"2022-03-14T00:31:57","modified_gmt":"2022-03-14T00:31:57","slug":"finding-the-right-words-guidelines-on-how-to-talk-to-grieving-children-about-death","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cremationbycare.com\/es\/finding-the-right-words-guidelines-on-how-to-talk-to-grieving-children-about-death\/","title":{"rendered":"Finding the Right Words: Guidelines on how to talk to grieving children about death"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>by Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>&nbsp;Through the years I have learned a great deal from many grieving children and their families. They have taught me which words work best when talking to children about death. 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It\u2019s OK to use the \u201cd\u201d word (death or dying). Explain death in a straightforward manner, without the use of metaphors or analogies such as \u201cpassed away,\u201d \u201ctaking a long sleep,\u201d \u201cleft us,\u201d or \u201cin a better place\u201d. Be open to discussing the death and his thoughts and feelings about it again and again. That\u2019s because healing is a process, not an event.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Share your feelings<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>A natural part of healing is seeing that others feel the same way that you do. Let the child see you grieving and mourning. Don\u2019t be afraid of scaring her by letting her see you cry. Remember, crying is really an act of strength, not weakness. Crying together is healing. It allows you to express your grief in a raw and honest way. By grieving together you send the strong message that she is not alone in her grief.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Be honest and direct<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Answer questions simply and directly. Adults may think they need to explain everything, but young children are often satisfied with an honest, short answer. For example, just the first two sentences of this explanation would suffice: \u201cI think it is sad that Grandpa died. What do you think? Yet Grandpa had a long and happy life. Some people are not ready to die because they haven\u2019t done enough, but Grandpa did so much. Did you know he was in World War II? Anyway, he was blessed with so much. 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Spend time simply sitting next to or holding the child. Your close physical presence is a conversation in itself.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When talking about the death or the child\u2019s grief, stay aware of your tone and make eye contact. With warmth, sincerity, and a relaxed open face, send the message that whatever she says is OK, allowing her to express her fears and wishes freely. Allow long pauses after questions or gaps in talking for her to fill or not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes it\u2019s easier for older children to talk without direct eye contact or while doing something else, such as riding in the car, walking together, cooking, or doing another activity together. Create ample opportunities for these casual, inviting situations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s also important to honor how children best express themselves\u2014and sometimes that\u2019s not through talking. Maybe it\u2019s drawing, writing in a journal, singing loudly, roughhousing, dancing, doing crafts, watching videos, or looking through pictures to remember the person who died. Tune in to the child\u2019s personality and create opportunities for various ways for her to express her grief.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Attend to your own grief<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>If you are a parent or family member, most likely you are also grieving the death of the person who died. When you are overwhelmed by death, it\u2019s hard to think of anything else, including the needs of those around you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s important for you to carve out time and honor your own grief. If you are responsible for the fulltime care of a child, you will have to do the same for her\u2014creating time for her to grieve with you and separately. Giving attention to another\u2019s grief can be challenging when grief has shaken you deeply, but try your best to be available to your child, who feels shocked and confused by the death of a family member or a loved one. If, understandably, you just can\u2019t do it right now, find another loving adult who can.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your child needs full-on love and attention right now\u2014at a time when it might feel the hardest to give. Remember that your grief may look very different than her grief. While you may be overwhelmed with sadness, her feelings may be more muddled and undefined. She may be able to digest just a little of her grief at a time before needing a mental and emotional break, while your grief may be all-consuming.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s important to ask for help from friends and family; let them take on some of the responsibility of companioning your child through her grief. 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